There is a campaign which is titled as"Ndoa ni upendo na sio vita", which means marriage is"love and not awar".  I 100% support  the idea of having such campaign.Some people says:  "everything thing matterswhen it comes to you" . Other women or men may not understand what does the campaign have to do with our standards of living, but for those wentthrough tuff marriages or relationships  have a clear understanding.